如果凡事只应该从自己身上找原因就行，孟母就不用三迁了
<p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">人在社会中，绝对不可能彻底独立，不受其他人的影响。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">社会由无数个人组成，由千差万别的观念，制度，规律，将每个人编织在一起。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">人类社会，不是地里的土豆，每颗都在独立长大。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">更像一张大网，每个人，都是网上的一个点，一个结。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">一个点动一下，会带动周围的点动，离的最近的点，受影响越大。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">一个点，也不能无限制的动，它每次动，都会受到周围点的牵扯，消解他的力量。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">形象一点，就像戏曲表演用到的珍珠衫。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); text-align: center; font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;"><font size="3"><img src="https://www.huamaoshuo.com/forum.php?mod=image&aid=7610&size=300x300&key=adda1fcbb1ac7ad7&type=fixnone" border="0" style="outline: 0px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: auto !important;visibility: visible !important;;max-width:677px;" aid="attachimg_7610" alt=""></font></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">但社会网络没有这么均匀，实际上如下图。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">每个人都有自己的社会关系，就是自己生活中沟通最频繁的那些人。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">所有人的社会网络织成了一件大网。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">在这样的社会网络中，其实没有人是彻底自由的。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">没有人能够，完全按照自己的意愿独立的生活。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">和自己交流最紧密的那些人，往往影响着你的生活，</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">时间久了，也决定着自己的命运走向。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">例如，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">很多体制内的人早就想辞职了，却总是没有勇气。</strong></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">因为他当初选择这样的工作，很大程度上父母也支持。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">几年工作下来，生活中的人基本都是体制内的人。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">当自己要萌生离开体制的念头时，</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">发现，认识的人绝大多数反对。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">也看到，周围大部分人都在体制内，享受其中。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">会听到，人们都在说各种体制内的好处、体制外的风险。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">三人成虎，听多了看多了，就开始怀疑自己的想法。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">也没有勇气迈出去。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">社会网络中的一个人要换个方向，周围的人都在消解他的力量。</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">再例如，我有一位朋友，国内知名影视制片人，三十岁出头就辞职。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">放弃老家优渥的工作，到北京追寻理想。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">二十年过去，如今已是国内本行业领军人物。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">因为他的社会网络在北京。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">当初他起心动念的时候，北京常沟通的朋友们，极多鼓励，提出支持。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">增加了他迈出关键一步的勇气。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">他的社会网络往前拉了他一把。</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">再例如，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">为什么底层社会的孩子总是很难跨越阶层？</strong></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">底层的父母，往往见识局限，勇气不足。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">他们没有体会过成功的滋味，</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">往往传递给子女懦弱，恐惧，消极放弃等习惯。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">我有一个学生，本科毕业，想不找工作先考研。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;-webkit-font-kerning: none;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">为了省在外房租吃饭钱，回父母家复习。</font></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;-webkit-font-kerning: none;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">父母每天劝他别学了，考研那么难，根本考不上。</font></span></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">读研出来成老姑娘了，不好嫁人了。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">一个女孩子还想怎么样。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">父母都是为你好。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">她每想向前走每一步，父母都会往后拉她。</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">人在复习考试时，本来就需要精神支持，</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">身边最在乎的人不仅不支持，反而打击。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">必然会影响学习效果。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><font size="3"><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">社会上的很多</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">观念，都无形中给人设置了障碍。</span></strong></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">使人看不到现实情况，也不能找到解决问题的正确方法。</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">社会教导我们，遇到事情从自己身上找原因，找自身之外的原因就是抱怨。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">谁都不想成为一个抱怨的人，所以只能在<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">思维</strong>上和自己<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">死磕</strong>。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">这样的死磕，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">没有结果。</strong></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">想要<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">科学</strong>的解决问题，必须<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">客观</strong>的找到原因。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">一个人的每一个决定，都是<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自己的意愿</strong>，和自己<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">社会网络</strong>中最重要的那几个人，<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">综合作用的结果。</strong></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">一个人的一生，都是无数的一个个决定组成的。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">所以，一个人的<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一生</strong>，不是由自己决定的，而是<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">由自己和周围的人</strong>决定的。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;="" letter-spacing:="" 0.310857px;="" text-indent:="" 0em;="" -webkit-text-stroke:="" rgb(0,="" 0,="" 0);="" font-stretch:="" normal;="" line-height:="" 2em;="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">众多人的理念，在一个人身上融合，起化学反应，塑造了一个人的一生。</font></span></strong></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">试想，一匹马长时间在羊群里，时间久了他也会变成羊，永远无法驰骋天地。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">如果有一天他找到了马群，才发现，自己想奔跑的时候，其他人不再反对他，而是全部支持他。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;="" letter-spacing:="" 0.310857px;="" text-indent:="" 0em;="" -webkit-text-stroke:="" rgb(0,="" 0,="" 0);="" font-stretch:="" normal;="" line-height:="" 2em;="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">他会比任何时候都自信潇洒。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">中国有句俚语：<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">跟好人学好人，跟着神汉会跳神。</strong></font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">也讲<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">近朱者赤，近墨者黑</strong>。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">如果你真的想飞翔，必须离开那群鸡，鹤立鸡群不存在的。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">有时候你觉得自己没那么优秀，似乎能力不足，勇气胆识不足。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">很可能，是你的社会网络<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">链接了错的人</strong>。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">如果你真的有梦想，就远离那些消耗你，打击你，拉你后退的人。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">别指望去改变他们，也<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">别一个劲的和自己死磕</strong>。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">换个环境，换个人群，去和鼓励你，支持你的人在一起。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">你就能焕然新生。</font></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></font></p><p style="margin-bottom: 15px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.310857px; text-indent: 0em; -webkit-text-stroke: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-stretch: normal; line-height: 2em; font-family: " songti="" sc";="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: PingFangSC-Light; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><font size="3">你想，如果凡事只应该从自己身上找原因，孟母也不用三迁了。</font></span></p><p><br></p><font size="2" color="#c0c0c0">转载声明：本文转载自「孙娟的书房」，搜索「SJDSFSJ」即可关注，[阅读原文]。点击右上角关注获取更多资讯！</font><font size="3"><br></font>花猫写作网拥有一帮喜欢读书、喜欢写作、喜欢分享传播正能量的朋友每天与你一起学习成长，在这里你不仅仅是收获知识。转载请联系花猫说（id:hmshuyouquan）进行授权转载。
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