不要套在名利的枷锁里，也别活在别人的目光里
<section style="box-sizing: border-box; text-align: justify; font-size: 16px;"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section style="box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: flex;flex-flow: row nowrap;margin: 0px 0% 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: auto;border-bottom-style: solid;border-bottom-width: 1px;border-bottom-right-radius: 0px;border-bottom-color: rgb(80, 200, 149);align-self: center;flex: 0 0 0%;height: auto;padding: 0px 6px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 30px;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: auto;align-self: flex-start;flex: 100 100 0%;height: auto;padding: 0px 0px 0px 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: 0px 0% 4px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="background-color: rgb(80, 200, 149);height: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section><svg viewBox="0 0 1 1" style="float:left;line-height:0;width:0;vertical-align:top;"></svg></section></section></section><section style="margin: 0px 0%;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="color: rgb(49, 158, 112);padding: 0px;letter-spacing: 1.8px;line-height: 1.8;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="transform: rotate(0deg);-webkit-transform: rotate(0deg);-moz-transform: rotate(0deg);-o-transform: rotate(0deg);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">真的，失意别沮丧，得意别猖狂。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">把自己认为是人生赢家或失败者，都是人的虚幻感。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">不要套在名利的枷锁里，也别活在别人的目光里。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">在现实条件允许的情况下，随心随性的做点自己想做的事。可以的话，再给社会贡献点自己的价值。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">痛快一场，悄然离去。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">我看过太多人，你方唱罢我登场，闹哄哄来去无踪，最后无非是一缕尘土，空留白茫茫大地真干净。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p></section></section><section style="margin: 30px 0% 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 90%;border: 1px solid rgb(192, 200, 209);padding: 10px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(220, 221, 221) 3.53px 3.53px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: -28px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;border: 2px solid rgb(255, 255, 255);padding: 0.1em 0.3em;background-color: rgb(254, 255, 255);color: rgb(13, 0, 21);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">1</strong></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">锒铛入狱的企业家<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">前几天去会朋友，惊闻我们共同认识的，当年一位煤矿的民营企业家锒铛入狱，在老家俗称“煤老板”。但这位煤老板与人们印象中蛮横无礼，脑满肠肥的暴发户不同。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">能源行业的确有暴富的机会，大多数人暴富后即膨胀，财富转瞬即逝。能将财富稳稳握在手里，不断使其增值，涉足多个行业，发展成集团公司，还是要靠个人能力。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">毕竟，防得住旁人虎视眈眈，看得清市场处处陷阱，穿越人性的诡谲黑暗，跨过时代的浪涛冲刷，需要足够的智慧。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">我认识他时，他已经是位60多岁的老者了，大概一生该经历的都经历了，所以早已返璞归真。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">他总是穿一件最普通的灰色帆布夹克，一双布鞋。见谁都面带慈祥，用和善的眼神认真的看着你。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">我是在参加朋友的饭局，认识他的。他总是很认真的听我们年轻人讲话，听完之后，又根据你的谈话内容给你反馈。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">和他聊天，你能感受到真正的被尊重。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">他没把你当做年轻人，居高临下的包容你；也不以长者自持，传授自己的人生经验。而是把你当做一个有个人想法的人，认真的理解你的观点，诚恳的和你讨论。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">只有脑子聪明，智慧的人，才懂得什么是真正的尊重，也就是这样开放而不自满的心态，才能使一个人不停止生长。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">当时在朋友的饭局见过几次，这个老者给我留下了深刻的印象，花白头发，半弓着背，一身旧衣，诚恳沟通，面面俱到。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">如果不是周围一群中年人围着他，想跟着他挣钱，我还以为他是个老农民。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">从周围人对他的态度上，我能感觉到，他手里有一个普通人难以企及的财富帝国，哪怕分出一丝一毫，也够普通人一家生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">前天会老朋友，谈起了我们共同认识的这位老者，我说：“这几年煤炭领域反腐，那个王总（化名）怎么样了？”对方说：“被查了，进去了。”当然，内幕我们都不知道，也就没再谈。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">我又问：“当时那些人们呢？”朋友说：“各谋生路呗。”</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">好一个呼啦啦大厦倾，好一个食尽鸟投林！</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">且不说具体到底发生了什么事。昔日热闹时， 前呼后拥，花团锦簇，如今一切化为泡影，恍若黄粱一梦。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">世事飘忽变幻，人生偶然无常，什么都会失去，只是如今失去的早了一些。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">世事枯荣难料，只是每个人悟道早晚不同。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">聪慧的人，一叶可知秋；愚钝的人，一辈子困在当下的虚幻中折腾的伤痕累累。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p></section><section style="text-align: center;justify-content: center;margin: 10px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;overflow: hidden;align-self: flex-start;font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.034em;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="height: 0px;overflow: visible;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;height: auto;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;overflow-x: auto;scroll-snap-type: x mandatory;white-space: nowrap;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: middle;width: 100%;scroll-snap-align: center;white-space: normal;max-width: 100% !important;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 100%;scroll-snap-align: center;white-space: normal;max-width: 100% !important;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 100%;scroll-snap-align: center;white-space: normal;max-width: 100% !important;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block;vertical-align: top;width: 100%;scroll-snap-align: center;white-space: normal;max-width: 100% !important;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="margin: 0px 0%;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="max-width: 100%;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;line-height: 0;width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="height: 0px;overflow: visible;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="width: 100%; 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padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">这让我想起了苏轼的早期悟道。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">苏轼第一次和弟弟、父亲一起京师赴试，名震朝野时，家乡传来了母亲病故的消息，父子三人马上回乡。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">昨日还金榜题名，鲜衣怒马，在繁华似锦的京师；今日便悲痛服丧，泪送至亲，在荒凉破壁的故园。 苏轼在大喜大悲之间，写下了这样的诗句：</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">“富贵本无定，世人自荣枯。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">嚣嚣好名心，嗟我岂独无。”</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">他在虚幻之感中，第一次对自己的仕途功名产生了怀疑。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">当苏轼回乡悼母后，怀着寂寥的心情踏上回京赴任的归途时，路过应试时借宿的渑池县寺庙，却被告知，当初曾彻夜探讨佛法的僧人奉贤，竟然圆寂归天了。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">而兄弟两留在墙上的题字也看不清了。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">岁月飘忽，生死难定的虚无感又一次萦绕而来。苏轼写下了这样的诗句：</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">“人生何处知何似？应似飞鸿踏雪泥。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">泥上偶然留指爪，鸿飞那复计东西。”</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">这句清逸之作，蕴含着彻悟人生底蕴的禅机。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">鸿雁掠过长空时，根本无心去留意留在雪地流水中的痕迹。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">万事万物全都虚幻不实，人更应该消除执着的心，明了世间万物变动不居，生灭无常的规律。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">卸下执着的枷锁，才能自由的起舞。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; 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padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p></section><section style="margin: 30px 0% 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 90%;border: 1px solid rgb(192, 200, 209);padding: 10px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(220, 221, 221) 3.53px 3.53px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: -28px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;border: 2px solid rgb(255, 255, 255);padding: 0.1em 0.3em;background-color: rgb(254, 255, 255);color: rgb(13, 0, 21);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">2</strong></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">晚年惶恐的官太太<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">我有一个亲戚，因为丈夫聪慧有才，90年代初期，平步青云，顺利的当了官。而夫贵妻荣，这位女性年轻时傲慢的不可一世。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">任何时候都在见缝插针的夸自己，贬低别人，一辈子尖酸刻薄，背后造谣诽谤。不允许别人在任何一个方面比自己强，不然就用恶毒的语言攻击你。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">一辈子永远都在嘲笑他人，嘲弄他人，传别人闲话，说的最多的就是：“某某某，素质差得呢，脑子差的呢，比我差多了。”</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">总是喜欢主动对人小恩小惠，但对人付出一分，会对外宣传十分。被动受其恩惠的人，在这样的氛围中，自觉矮几分，仿佛一辈子还不清债，被道德绑架压的抬不起头来，一旦声辩就是不懂感恩。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">总之，她需要别人羡慕，但又不想让别人和自己相同。仗着自己当官的丈夫，一辈子张扬跋扈，狐假虎威。周围的人被折磨的及其压抑，却又敢怒不敢言，</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">她深知自己没有素质与文化底蕴，所以对外塑造一个极假的人设，一辈子都在努力维护这个虚假人设，整天为了圆自己曾经说过的谎言和闲话而绞尽脑汁。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">一辈子极其膨胀，膨胀到像一团阴影笼罩在整个家族头顶。强势而恶毒，刻薄而不容置疑，永远居高临下，目中无人。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">可当反腐越来越深入后，丈夫退休后，她突然像变了一个人。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">傲慢的神情不见了，患上了满脸堆笑，不是真诚的笑，是谄媚的笑；当初恶毒的语言不见了，嘴上像抹了蜜一样甜，但让你觉得是虚假的恭维。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">再后来，身边的官员纷纷落马，她<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">眼神中难以掩饰的惶恐，面容带着昼夜难眠的疲惫，见人紧闭双唇，战战兢兢对所有人都像防贼，彻底不和人交流了。</strong>看到她这个变化后，我觉得非常可悲。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">一个可悲的女人，由于没有足够的智慧和善良的心性，一辈子没找到自己的位置，也没找到人生的准则，在精神错乱中度过一生。 在时代的浪潮下，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">由懦夫变成狂徒，由狂徒变成了疯子，又从疯子变成了哑巴。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">就像一片风中树叶，被命运的大手随意玩弄，狂风吹上了天，又踩在泥里，最后支离破碎，经脉尽断。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">得意莫猖狂，无论是否有落败的那一天，都只是过程，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">说什么高低贵贱，不过是世间人们狭隘的评价体系罢了。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br></strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">人最可悲的莫过于，为了外界的虚荣活着。得意时，快乐来自他人的羡慕，失意时，最关注的是他人的鄙夷。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">如同</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">风口烛火，任何变动</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">都能让自己</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">飘忽不定。</span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">最后在虚荣中聒噪了一辈子，折磨了自己，伤害了别人。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">到老了才发现，安静祥和的心境和真实和谐的人际关系最重要，但一生的时间都在蒙昧中虚度了，醒悟时为时已晚。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br></strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">其实，每个人都会经历势单力薄的青少年，如日中天的壮年，热势褪去的老年。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br></p><p style="margin-bottom: 3px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">所以，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">年轻时无需自卑，中年得势切勿狂妄，老年无需悔恨，一切都只是过程。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">看清人生的虚无，才能不沦为外在的境遇的傀儡，虚荣的囚徒。才能不活在虚荣里，懂得真正的自尊和尊重他人。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; 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padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p></section><section style="margin: 30px 0% 10px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 90%;border: 1px solid rgb(192, 200, 209);padding: 10px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-shadow: rgb(220, 221, 221) 3.53px 3.53px 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="margin: -28px 0% 0px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;border: 2px solid rgb(255, 255, 255);padding: 0.1em 0.3em;background-color: rgb(254, 255, 255);color: rgb(13, 0, 21);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">3</strong></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 24px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">看清世事虚幻后的热爱<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section></section></section><section style="line-height: 2;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">历代中国士人，做到随缘自适，不以物喜，不以己悲，</span>需要在现实的波折和仕途的困顿中，随时调试精神世界，保持自己的人格完整，超脱的情怀和安宁心境。</p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">苏轼在贬居黄州的五年里，每隔一两天就要到安国寺焚香默坐，深自审察。所以他会说：</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">长恨此身非我有，</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">何时忘却营营。</span></strong><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">”</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">在时代的变幻，肉身的腐朽，人心的诡谲面前，个人的努力微乎及微，唯一能把握的，就是淡泊出世的心。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">看清了无常，看清此身只是奔流江河中浪花一朵，才能在这毫无规律，瞬息万变的虚幻中，把握自己，抽身而出。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">世间无常，唯一不变的，就是变化。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">世间的一切，都是生灭流转的过程。不仅世事是虚幻的，短暂的，就连人生也是虚幻的，没有什么事可以计较和执着的。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">自自然然为人，平平淡淡是真，在平凡的生活中自在一些，把富贵，功名看的淡一些。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">毕竟富贵难长久，功名身外物。</span>而心灵的表里悠然，无所附丽的自然状态，才是人生真正的智慧。</strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">苏轼有一首洒脱超俗的《哨遍》：</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">“噫！ 归去来兮， 我今忘我兼忘世。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">亲戚无浪语，琴书中有真味。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">步翠麓崎岖，泛溪窈窕，涓涓暗谷流春水。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">观草木欣荣，幽人自感，吾生行且休矣！</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">……</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">富贵非吾志。 但知临水登山啸咏，</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">自引壶觞自醉。 此生天命更何疑？”</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">生活在封建社会的中国士人，当遇到人生中的困苦磨难时，很容易掉入消极的佛老思想中聊以自慰。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">但消极避世并不可取，既然认为世间一切虚幻，已经放下执着，就没必要刻意逃避。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">真正的智慧，是看清虚幻之后，尽心尽力去做自己认为值得做的事情，同时不纠结结果。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">苏轼虽然命运多舛，但是他爱学习，善于思考，学识渊博，性情开阔，所以能够将一切忧愁幻化成诗，能够在看破生活的苦难之后，用出世的精神更加热爱生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">所以，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">不要活在别人的眼光里，社会的观念里，用不着刻意低调，也用不着趾高气扬。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">世间的无常，和人心的冷漠，不值得我们压抑自己的性情，去迎合他们，在意他们，或者躲避他们。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">来到人间，随心随性的大闹一场，然后离去，就好了，这才是看透了人生真相，既然热爱生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">最成功的人生，莫过于长久的拥有心底的安详，踏实，舒畅。</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">何处无月，何月不照人？</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">重要的是，抖落尘埃，洗尽铅华，让如昼的月光照亮你。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">东坡有语：</span></p><p style="margin: 0px 0px 3px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box;">大江东去，浪淘尽，千古风流人物。人生如梦，一樽还酹江月。</span></p></section></section><br><font color="#c0c0c0" size="2">转载声明：本文转载自「孙娟的书房」，搜索「SJDSFSJ」即可关注，[阅读原文]。点击右上角关注获取更多资讯！</font><br>花猫写作网拥有一帮喜欢读书、喜欢写作、喜欢分享传播正能量的朋友每天与你一起学习成长，在这里你不仅仅是收获知识。转载请联系花猫说（id:hmshuyouquan）进行授权转载。
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