辞职两年：自由的代价你知道吗？
<section style="text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: center; line-height: 1.8; padding: 0px 18px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.4px;"><font size="2">作者：艾菲</font></span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1.4px;"><font size="2">来源：艾菲的理想（ID: xiaoyaolsh）</font></span></p><br></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><p><source src="https://res.wx.qq.com/voice/getvoice?mediaid=MzA4NTU3NjAwNl8yNjUwMDQ1NjQ5" type="audio/mpeg">msg_error_browser_too_low</audio><br><br></p><p>辞职两年：自由的代价</p></section><section><br></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(94, 94, 94); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">两年前的4月26日，是我在I公司工作五年后的最后一个工作日。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">到现在，已过去两年了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">在这两年里，我先是摸索了一条成为自由职业者的路，然后我又慢慢的从自由职业者变成了一名创业者。如今，我的团队已经有了五个人，三名全职，两名兼职。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">在这两年里，我有过孤独无助的时候，也有过焦虑担忧的日子，有过为收入担心恐慌的时刻，也常常需要在周末和晚上工作。但是，我从没后悔过这个决定，相反，我觉得这两年是我毕业后过得最快活的两年。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">人在什么时候是最快活的呢？</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">我想，那就是在活出了自己的天赋，践行了自己的价值观，并不断向着自己真实愿景所努力的过程中。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">前路依然未定，但这个过程本身就是给予人生的最大奖励和报偿，是那个比达到目的地更美好、更有意义的东西，难道不是吗？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这种快活，在外人看来也许是惊心动魄的，毕竟它意味着你得放弃稳定的工作和不错的收入，然后去选择一条不清晰、不确定、缺乏保障的路。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">可是，你若从未体会过这种“成为自己”的自由感，就永远都不可能了解它的价值和意义。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这种自由，不是想做什么就做什么，想有什么就有什么的自由。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">这种自由，代表的是你有机会去最大程度的探索自己、发现自己、拓展自己，并活出自己的自由。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">然而，与其他任何一件有价值的事物一样，想要获得它，就需要付出相应的代价。这种自由也不例外，你能否得到它的关键不在于你有多少的技巧和方法，而在于你愿为之付出多少，以及放弃什么。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这篇文章是我两年前辞职时真实思考的回放，它让我想清了为了追求这种自由，我必须要放下的东西。</p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: center; color: rgb(178, 177, 177); line-height: 1.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">—<span style="font-size: 32px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">1 </strong></span></em></span><span style="font-size: 22px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></span>—</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">风险的厌恶</span></strong></span></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(94, 94, 94); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">两个选项放在你的面前，一个是可以直接拿走的一百万，一个是有50%概率能拿走的一千万，你会选哪个？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">很多人都选择前者，为什么？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">因为“确定”！</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这就是著名的“确定效应”。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">它是由获得诺贝尔奖的行为经济学家丹尼尔卡尼曼提出的，它说的是：<span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">当人们面对确定的小收益与不确定的大收益时，一般都会选择确定的小收益。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(78, 78, 78);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">换句话说就是，当人们处于收益状态时，大多数人都是风险厌恶者。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">现在的工作，是确定的，即使收益没那么大。而辞职后要去转换的工作、自由职业或创业，即使可能的收益会很大，但也是不确定的。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，根据“确定效应”，大多数人都会选择前者。而如果知道了这种心理倾向，你就会明白，它只是一种心理作用，而它并不意味着最佳选择。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-radius: 12px;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 92%;height: auto;line-height: 0;overflow: hidden;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: center; color: rgb(178, 177, 177); line-height: 1.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">—<span style="font-size: 32px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">2 </strong></span></em></span><span style="font-size: 22px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></span>—</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">身份的焦虑</strong></span></span></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">什么是“身份的焦虑”？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">英伦才子阿兰德波顿曾写过一本书，名字就是《身份的焦虑》。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px); margin: -20px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 3px;border-style: solid;border-left-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);border-right-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(125, 125, 125);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1.3px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">阿兰德伯顿说“在他人眼里，我是怎样一个人？我是个成功者还是失败者？每个人的内心，都潜藏着对自我身份的一种难言的‘焦虑’。”</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这就是“身份的焦虑”。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">辞职之前，我也有过这种焦虑。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">一旦失去了企业的舞台，职位的光环，我到底是谁？谁又在意我？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">以前，我可以说自己是**公司大中华区市场部负责人，而以后呢？我又该如何介绍自己？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这就是实实在在的身份的焦虑。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">那么，它究竟是怎样造成的呢？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">它由两个因素所造成，分别是：<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">“渴求身份”与“势利倾向”。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">什么是“渴求身份“?</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">“渴求身份”说的是：他人对我们的关注之所以如此重要，主要原因在于人类对自身价值的判断有一种与生俱来的不确定性。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">换句话说，我们对自己的认识在很大程度上取决于他人对我们的看法。我们的自我感觉与自我认同完全受制于周围的人对我们的评价。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">因为“渴求身份”，我们会将对自我的认识与评价建立在他人对我们的看法之上。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，如果大部分人认为离婚的人既可怜又失败，那么即便你觉得婚姻无以为继，为了避免这种看法，你也会选择继续留在那里。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">同样，如果大多数人认为离开一个稳定工作是一件很蠢的事，那我们是无论如何也不会辞职的。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">什么是“势利倾向”？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">它的意思是：我们嫉妒的只是和我们处在同一层次的人，即我们的比照群体。</span></strong>所以，在这个世界上，最难忍受的大概就是我们最亲近的朋友比我们成功。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">“势利倾向”会让我们终其一生都无法不去与周围相近的人进行比较。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当比照群体里有人买了更大的房子，我们就会觉得自己的房子不够用了；当比照群体里有人在春节期间去瑞士自助游了一圈，我们就会觉得自己的云南之行索然无味了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当我们拥有的比我们“比照群体”的更多更好，我们就会觉得安全；相反，我们则会想尽一切办法去努力达到他们的水平。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">然而不论是哪一种，我们都有明确的参照系，这种参照系会带给我们身份的认同，随之而来的就是安全感。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">离开公司，去做自己的事，就意味着我得去对抗或消除这两种身份的焦虑，当然是很难的。然而，当我明白了其中的道理，阻碍也就迎刃而解。</p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: center; color: rgb(178, 177, 177); line-height: 1.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">— <em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);font-size: 32px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">3 </strong></span></em><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 38px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"></em></span></strong></span>—</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">体制的安全</span></strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">什么是“体制”？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">《肖申克的救赎》这部电影中对此有段极为经典的阐释：</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px); margin: -20px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 3px;border-style: solid;border-left-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);border-right-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(125, 125, 125);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1.3px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“监狱里的高墙实在很有趣，刚入狱的时候，你痛恨周围的高墙；慢慢的，你习惯了生活在其中；最终你发现自己不得不依靠它生存。这就是体制化。”</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">Brooks在出狱后获得了我们每个人都无比珍视的自由，我们以为他会就此过上幸福的生活。谁知结果却截然相反，在离开了监狱这个体制后，他反而无所适从，找不到人生的意义与生活的目的，最终自缢而亡。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">从本质来看，每一种能给我们提供一定安全感，同时又将我们的自由限制一部分的都可称之为“体制”；当我们长久的待在其中，就会跟不上外面的世界，从而适应力会被不断削弱的都是“体制”。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，欧美外企是体制，日本企业是体制，台湾企业是体制，私营企业是体制；就连婚姻、家庭在一定意义上来说又何尝不是体制。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当然，每一种体制的体制化程度会有不同，有的特别重，有的比较轻。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，当我们在外企中待得久了，一旦需要离开，就会觉得不知所措，希望还是再找一份外企的工作比较好。因为我们会觉得私营企业的工作不论是上班打卡，还是年终评估，感觉都是难以适应。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当我们结婚久了，习惯总有一人相伴，习惯某些事情总有另一人来做。一旦遭逢离婚，就会被譬如“外面的世界很可怕”，“孤单完全无法忍受”，“以后电灯坏了谁来修。”等问题吓到魂飞魄散，然后便是说什么也不肯离开可能早已名存实亡的婚姻了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，每当我们想要走出高墙，冲破体制的时候，都能“准确”而”生动“的预测到体制外的可怕。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">于是，我们便会选择继续在体制内待着，因为体制能够带给我们确定的安全感，而体制外的世界则是被不确定与恐惧充满。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">直到有一天这个体制因为其他原因不得不解散，就像Brooks刑满释放不得不走出监狱一样，我们才被迫的走出。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">于我也是一样，当我想要辞职、冲破体制的时候，恐惧感立刻像潮水般涌来。而直到我了悟了其中道理时，恐惧的潮水才终于慢慢退去。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; text-align: center; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-radius: 12px;border-width: 0px;border-style: initial;border-color: rgb(62, 62, 62);width: 92%;height: auto;line-height: 0;overflow: hidden;vertical-align: middle;display: inline-block;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;"></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: center; color: rgb(178, 177, 177); line-height: 1.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">—<span style="font-size: 32px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">4 </strong></span></em></span><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 38px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"></em></span></strong></span>—</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">金钱的匮乏</span></strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">以前，只要每次想到Gap year，我都会感到经济上的忧虑与金钱的匮乏，后来想要辞职时也是如此。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这使我深感困惑：在这些年里我已攒了足够维持与之前相同生活品质一段时间的钱，可为什么还会感觉到金钱的匮乏呢？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">后来，我意识到，<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">金钱的匮乏，未必是真正的匮乏，相反，它只是一种永不满足的感受。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">那么，是不是能够达到“财务自由”，我们就不会再有这种”金钱的匮乏“感了呢？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">这就要来聊聊财务自由这件事了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">其实，我们对于“财务自由”一直都有一个错误假设，那就是“只要财务自由了，我们就能去做自己喜欢的事了。”</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">但真是这样吗？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">第一，为什么必须要等财务自由，才能去做自己喜欢的事？为什么不能是现在就去做自己喜欢的事？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">第二，到底什么是财务自由？</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">比如：</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px); margin: -20px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 3px;border-style: solid;border-left-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);border-right-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(125, 125, 125);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1.3px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">我的一个朋友，他现在手上大概有两三千万的资产，所以他觉得如果能有一个亿就是财务自由；然而，当他拥有一个亿的时候呢，他大概又会觉得要有两个亿才能自由吧。</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">“财务自由”的定义永远都在变，除非我们学会了如何去把握自己的欲望。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">著名商业顾问刘润曾说过一段很棒的话：</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; transform: translate3d(20px, 0px, 0px); margin: -20px 0%; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="display: inline-block;width: 100%;border-width: 0px 0px 0px 3px;border-style: solid;border-left-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);border-right-color: rgba(160, 158, 158, 0.43);padding: 10px;box-sizing: border-box;"><section style="text-align: left;transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-webkit-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-moz-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);-o-transform: translate3d(-13px, 0px, 0px);box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="text-align: justify;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(125, 125, 125);line-height: 1.8;letter-spacing: 1.3px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">“为什么很多人不会对私人飞机动心？因为目前不可能买得起。但为什么会对去马尔代夫动心？因为跳一跳能够着。只要这个世界上，一直有跳一跳能够得着的东西，钱就是永远不够花的，财务永远也无法自由。无论这个钱来自于劳动收入，还是投资收入。心灵自由，才是真正的自由。”</strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: center; color: rgb(178, 177, 177); line-height: 1.2; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;">— <em style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);font-size: 32px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">5 </strong></span></em><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 38px;box-sizing: border-box;"><em style="box-sizing: border-box;"></em></span></strong></span>—</p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="font-size: 20px;color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">连结的断裂</span></strong><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;">人是有社会属性的，所以人需要彼此的连结，这种连结能够给予人力量和生气。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">所以，当我们要跨越边界，脱离现在习惯的时候，就会感受到这种熟悉连结的断裂。这种感受有时会很强烈，尤其是当我们接下来要走的路是一个人的路，左右没有陪伴。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当我们想要离开现在的公司，去另一家公司就职时，我们担心在新的地方会无法再建立起现在这种温暖惬意的同事关系，感到了安全感的缺失，于是就望而却步了。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">当我们想要离开现在已经不爱的女朋友的时候，我们担心自己无法承受随之失去的亲密连结，感到了安全感的缺失，于是我们选择不再离开。</p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 11px; margin: 5px 0%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><section style="border-width: 0px 0px 1px;border-style: solid;border-bottom-color: rgb(201, 199, 199);font-size: 15px;padding: 0px 16px;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; color: rgb(162, 34, 34); line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.6px; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">最后的话<br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 2; letter-spacing: 1.3px; padding: 0px 16px; color: rgb(96, 96, 96); box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">就是这样，因为上面五个原因，我们不愿离开原地，我们害怕连结的断裂。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">在想明白了这些事后，一切变得豁然开朗。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">原来，我要面对的既不是金钱的匮乏，也不是身份的焦虑。<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(239, 84, 17);box-sizing: border-box;">原来，我要面对的只是人性的弱点。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">正如哲学家海德格尔说的那句话：<strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="color: rgb(89, 89, 89);box-sizing: border-box;">“人不自由时感到不满，自由时感到惶恐。”</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;">现在，我已不再惶恐，在穿越了惶恐，面对了人性的弱点、放下了对于安全感的执念之后，我走在了创造蓬勃人生的路上。</p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; text-align: center; color: rgb(183, 7, 7); box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;box-sizing: border-box;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box;"><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;">- END -</strong></span><strong style="box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></strong></p></section><section style="font-size: 15px; color: rgb(96, 96, 96); letter-spacing: 1.3px; line-height: 2; padding: 0px 16px; box-sizing: border-box;" powered-by="xiumi.us"><p style="margin: 0px; padding: 0px; box-sizing: border-box;"><br style="box-sizing: border-box;"></p></section><section style="font-size: 14px; 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