真正的高情商，绝不是精明世故，而是这样的。
<p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;="" letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><br></p><section style="margin-bottom: 20px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;="" letter-spacing:="" 0.544px;="" line-height:="" 2em;="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" overflow-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -webkit-standard; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="text-align: center; margin: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0px; text-indent: 0em; font-size: medium; border: none; line-height: 2em; font-family: Baskerville, serif; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">今天朋友问我，高智商和高情商哪个更重要？</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们清华大学的同学群里讨论了一天这个问题。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">引起讨论的是这样一件事：</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">同是清华毕业的一位同学，工作认真，专业技术过硬，但混迹国企多年，却一直未见晋升。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">偶然一次，问起他的领导，领导说：“这家伙情商太低，嘴多。”</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">领导举了个例子。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">上级过来视察工作，问了领导一个问题，他没有回答上来。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">结果这个小伙子熟稔专业知识，抢答了，让领导下不来台。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">从此再不入领导法眼，前程堵死。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是人们常说的情商太低，毁了前程。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是，巧言令色，拍领导马屁，就是高情商吗？</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">一个专业知识过硬的清华高材生，应该去钻研这样的事情吗？</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人们把真正的情商和溜须拍马混淆了。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">现在网络上，充斥着混淆概念的文章，例如：</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">情商高，就是会说话。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">情商高，才能职场晋升。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">实际上，是把虚伪、圆滑、没有原则，说成情商高。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是被包装过的精致利己主义，是一件很不要脸的事。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">目前的中国社会，是个过分吹捧“理性”的社会。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人的精神，情感，理想，信仰都被漠视了。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是一种非常世俗的价值取向。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在这种价值取向下，人专注于利用规则。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">精于算计，伪装自己，表面一套，背后一套。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只要能达到现实目的，人生理想，信念信仰，基本不考虑。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2012年北大的钱理群教授曾说过这样一番话：</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我们的教育，正在培养一批「绝对的，精致的利己主义者」。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓「绝对」，是指一己的利益成为他们一切言行的唯一驱动力。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">为他人、社会所做的一切，都是一种投资；</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所谓「精致」，是指他们有很高的智商，教养，所做的一切在表面上都合理、合法，无可挑剔；</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">同时，他们又惊人的「世故老成」，经常作出「忠诚」姿态。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">很懂得配合，表演，最善于利用体制的力量。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">最大限度地获取自己的利益，成为既得利益集团的成员。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">因此，他们要成为接班人也是顺理成章的。”</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">可以说，精于世故，虚伪圆滑，顺着杆往上爬，被包装成了“高情商”。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">其实是贻害千年的奴性文化的变种。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这些人自以为很聪明，却恰恰「聪明反被聪明误」。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">从个人来说，其实是将自己套在「名利的缰绳」中，是自我的庸俗化；</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而这样的人，一旦掌握了权力，其对国家、民族的损害，是大大超过那些昏官的。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这种人往往没有自己的核心价值观，也没有和其他人共情的能力。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们看似有高情商，实际上他们是最缺乏情商的一类人。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-size: 16px;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;letter-spacing:="" 0.6217142939567566px;text-align:="" center;box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;word-wrap:="" break-word="" !important;"=""></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">真正的高情商是什么？</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">绝对不是戒掉情绪，变成没有血肉温度的行尸走肉，工作机器。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">真正的高情商，首先是能够辨识到自己的情绪。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">此刻是欢喜？高兴？快乐？紧张？还是悲伤？沮丧？生气？绝望？愤怒？焦虑？</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数人不能辨识自己的情绪，也没有唤醒情绪的能力，更不会正确的表达。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">只会感觉到我很难受，难受了又宣泄不出来，憋在心里，变成怨怼和身体疾病。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商者，除了辨识自己的情绪，还能分析引起这个情绪的原因。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">找到解决问题的切入点，解决它，最后让自己心情愉快。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">除此之外，高情商还意味着，能感受到他人的情绪，辨识他人的情绪。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">能分析到对方产生情绪背后的原因。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">情商和智商不是对立的。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人只有脑子好，智商够，才有可能更好的理解事情。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">才可能有高情商。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">至于一个人是否愿意曲意逢迎，善于利用体制，给自己获取资源。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这不是情商问题，是个人价值取向问题。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">民间有很多人，他们有才能，高智商，高情商。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">与朋友邻居家人相处融洽，自己的生活体验也很幸福。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">可见情商并不低。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们无名无利，不是他们没能力，只是不屑于精于世故。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">更不愿意将大部分精力和个人尊严牺牲在自己看不起的事情上。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">他们有自己明确的核心价值观。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这是个人主动选择的。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人只有具备真正的高情商和高智商，才能够看清事情背后的含义。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">悟出真正的人生智慧</span>，理解自己该如何对待，让自己的一生过得真正有价值。</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">历史上不乏这样的人。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: white;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">比如王阳明。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: white;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">正德皇帝不务正业，喜欢外出玩耍，任用刘瑾等大太监为心腹，让刘瑾成为只手遮天的大奸贼，搞得民间鸡飞狗跳。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: white;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">王阳明却做了件“情商低”的事。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: white;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">上奏章为得罪过刘瑾的南京给事中、御史戴铣求情，结果自己也得罪了刘瑾。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;background-color: white;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">还被贬官到贵州龙场驿做驿丞。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">实际上，他不是情商不高，而是有自己的核心价值观。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">被贬后他回乡开私塾，用兵平判乱，主动作为，将自己的学问充分体现在事业中。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这样一颗强劲的心，和超凡的解决问题的能力，才使得他悟到自己的心学：“知行合一，以致良知。”</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">再比如，苏东坡。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">变法时不屑于与拉拢小人，终于被小人陷害。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">在今天看来也是“情商低”。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但是他假使被贬，仍然受当时社会名流追随，百姓爱戴。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">即使在人生低谷，生活态度仍然达观，酿酒种地，烹饪美食。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">千年后，仍然是中国人的精神偶像。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这才是真正的高情商。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">所以<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">，高情商，绝对不是像个心怀鬼胎的奴才一样，巧言令色，精于世故。</strong></span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">是能够辨识和分析人的情绪，以及情绪背后的原因。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">更是拥有自己的核心价值观，坚持自己明确的做人原则。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">能够跟随情境，随时调整自己的做事方式，跟进思想深度。</span></strong></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">但愿你也拥有这样的高情商。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">即使处在人生低谷，经历过人生的磨难。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">也不可能被碾压成灰。</span></p><p style="margin: 10px;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;letter-spacing: 0px;text-indent: 0em;font-size: medium;border: none;line-height: 2em;font-family: Baskerville, serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 17px;font-family: PingFangSC-Light;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">反而能够浴火重生，淬炼成金。</span></p></span></section><font color="#c0c0c0" size="2">转载声明：本文转载自「孙娟的书房」，搜索「SJDSFSJ」即可关注，[阅读原文]。点击右上角关注获取更多资讯！</font><br>花猫写作网拥有一帮喜欢读书、喜欢写作、喜欢分享传播正能量的朋友每天与你一起学习成长，在这里你不仅仅是收获知识。转载请联系花猫说（id:hmshuyouquan）进行授权转载。
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