《我是余欢水》老实人逆袭：不讨好的人生，到底有多爽？
<section style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); text-align: center;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="text-align: left;"><font face="-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif" size="2" color="#808080"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;">作者|Jenny乔</span></font></section><section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="text-align: left;"><font face="-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif" size="2" color="#808080"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;">来源|Jenny乔 id Jenny-Qiao-Love</span></font></section><section data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io" style="text-align: left;"><font face="-apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif" size="2" 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background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">常言道：人善被人欺，马善被人骑。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在电视剧《我是余欢水》中，郭京飞饰演的中年人余欢水</span><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就生动形象的诠释了这句话。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他</span><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">明明</span><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">很</span><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">老实本分，却过得十分辛酸无奈。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在家中，被自己媳妇、父亲欺负。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为没有买牛奶，就被媳妇痛批一顿，言语间都是看不起、冷漠。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: 1.5em;"><span data-shimo-docs="[]"=""><p line="0ynF" linespacing="200" style="line-height: 200%;margin-bottom: 0pt;margin-top: 0pt;font-size: 11pt;color: #494949;"><span line-inline="zepL"><br></span></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">即便他想讨好老婆为其买辆车，他老婆也没有丝毫感激之情，反而更多的是对其怨骂。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;border-radius: 9px;height: auto;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他的爸爸，每次见面，唯一的主题就是要钱，甚至冲到他公司大吵大闹，令余欢水颜面尽失。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在家被欺负，在外还会被邻居欺负。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在楼道的电梯里，邻居家的狗乱尿尿，余欢水只是善意的提醒了一下，想伸张正义，没想到却遭到邻居咄咄逼人的反驳，即便儿子在身边，余欢水还是窝囊的不敢和邻居继续理论，只能默默接受她的歪理邪说。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;height: auto;border-radius: 9px;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">邻居装修吵得他周末无法休息，明明是对方违反《装修法》制造噪音，结果却是余欢水遭受到羞辱。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;height: auto;border-radius: 9px;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">除此以外，在公司，被上司和同事欺负也时常发生。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">余欢水业绩不好，被自己一手带起来的徒弟当面嘲笑，直接暗讽他没脑子。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">因为家中有事迟到几次后，上司公开通报批评他。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就连他多年的好朋友，也把他欺负的很惨。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">余欢水把妈妈临终前留下的十三万的“紧急救命钱”，借给了好友周转。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">没想到，后来好友发达了，却只字不提还钱的事情，</span><span style="caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">即便偶尔应付答应，但还会找各种借口不还。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">最后还奇葩的撂话道：这钱我会还你，但是得看我心情。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">作为观众，我看着直生气，然而余欢水却卑微的说：<strong>咱们这么好的朋友，我很珍惜你。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">余欢水活脱脱就是处于一个弱势地位的中年老实人，即便再委屈，再辛酸，也只能暗自吃亏，无处诉苦。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">表面上这是一出荒诞喜剧，让人捧腹大笑，闲时解压，<strong>实际上每个中年人都能在余欢水身上看到自己的影子，如何为生活忍辱负重、委曲求全。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">有网友扎心的戳破真相:</span></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 10px 16px 8px;"><section style="padding-left: 8px;display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;"><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 14px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“心疼余欢水就是心疼我们自己”</span><span style="font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></p><p style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><br></p><p style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“人人都笑余欢水，人人都是余欢水”</span></p><p style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><br></p><p style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“我看到了自己的影子”</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">为了不戳破世界的假面，而活在自己努力维持的一片祥和里；</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">为了使自己活得看起来顺风顺水，不惜用卑微屈尊的姿态去讨好某些人；</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">人到中年，人不如狗。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我终于明白了，这句话的意义所在。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">网上曾经流行一段同样很扎心的话：</span></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br></p><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 10px 16px 8px;"><section style="padding-left: 8px;display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;"><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 14px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“不要大声责骂年轻人，他们会立马辞职的。但是你可以往死里骂那些中年人，尤其是有车有房有娃的那些。”</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">短短几句话，道出了中年人的艰难和不易。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">很多中年人被“挤”在家庭责任之间，既要照顾年迈的父母，同时还要抚养年幼的孩子长大成人，为这2代人提供经济和情感支持，就像被放在三明治的中间一样，任人宰割。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">经济学家形象的称之为“三明治一代”。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“三明治一代”是生活最有压力的一代人，一方面承受经济上沉重的负担，一方面身体也要超负荷运作，据调查有97%以上的中年人都感觉自己生活的很累，可是为了家人还得硬撑着。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">所以，<strong>这些中年人越活越循规蹈矩，越活越老实本分，生活丝毫不敢有任何差池。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我的朋友杨迪今年38岁，是一个公司的小主管。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">都说有家的男人超幸福，但只有他自己知道养家的男人多辛苦。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他家中有4老，下面有2个孩子，为了照顾孩子，妻子只能找个轻松钱少的工作，基本上全家人都指望着他。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">杨迪根本不敢失业，也不敢生病，害怕体检，总害怕自己倒下。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他前几年就听说一些公司35岁就属于“超龄”了，以前工作不开心了，就会和领导叫嚣 “此处不留爷自有留爷处”，现在却完全不敢和领导发出不同的声音。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">即便领导交代一些吃力不讨好的活，也会默默接下来，加班熬夜争取干好。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但生活却并未善待他。</span></strong></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">今年领导给很多人都涨了工资，偏偏没有杨迪。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">那些更有棱角、懂得为自己发声的人，他们受到的职场霸凌更少，薪资也平均比普通职员高15%。而任打任挨的老实人，他们的薪资则平均会低8%。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">这就是著名的“仙人掌定律”。</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">杨迪就是如同余欢水一样的老实人，不敢去找领导，只是当做什么事都没发生。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“我总爱下班回家前开车到楼下时候，在车里待会，抽根烟给自己一个独处的空间，这个时候才是我，回到家依然笑脸面对父母老婆孩子，假装快乐的背后，其实藏着别人看不到的无奈和沮丧。”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;border-radius: 9px;height: auto;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">多么心酸。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">在现实生活中，中年职场老实人往往是活的最沉重的一群人。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">让人不禁想起姜文在《狗日的中年》中说过一段嘲讽的话：</span></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br></p><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 10px 16px 8px;"><section style="padding-left: 8px;display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;"><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 14px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“中年是个卖笑的年龄，既要讨得老人的欢心，也要做好儿女的榜样，不停迎合上司的心思。中年为了生计、脸面、房子车子票子不停周旋。”</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">句句在理，字字诛心。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, " helvetica="" neue",="" "pingfang="" sc",="" "hiragino="" sans="" gb",="" "microsoft="" yahei="" ui",="" yahei",="" arial,="" sans-serif;="" letter-spacing:="" 0.61px;="" background-color:="" rgb(255,="" 255,="" 255);="" width:="" 100%;="" height:="" auto;="" box-sizing:="" border-box="" !important;="" visibility:="" visible="" !important;"="" alt=""></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">如果不是因为患癌，老实人余欢水可能还是会忍气吞声的活着。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但当知道自己生命的时间所剩无多时，余欢水才敢开始彻底“放飞自我”，重新活了一把。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">当邻居又开始扰人的装修时，他冲到楼上，一顿破坏。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;height: auto;border-radius: 9px;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">朋友赖着不还钱的时候，他学会以恶制恶，逼迫其乖乖连本带利都还了回来。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="caret-color: red;font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">潇洒的答应了老婆的离婚请求，霸气地打击了小舅子嚣张气焰，并且在岳丈家硬气的对老婆说：回家吧，别在这受气了。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><img src="" border="0" style="max-width:100%;width: 100%;border-radius: 9px;height: auto;" alt=""></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">对待领导也不再低声下气，反而当其尊严被践踏的时候，强硬的对上司命令道：“赵觉民，你以后不准这么跟我说话！”</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他不再委曲求全，不再事事尽力让别人满意，反而努力在生活的最后时刻，找回自己的尊严。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">之后几集，余欢水更是活出了人生的高光时刻：无意间抓住上司的把柄，成功升职加薪，还见义勇为成为英雄，得到了意想不到的荣誉……</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">很多人都觉得余欢水的逆袭在现实中发生的概率实在太渺茫，但事实上，我们未能突破的原因，就是因为缺少了一种决绝的勇气。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">什么人都不敢得罪，什么事都觉得是自己的错。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px; font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">这本质上，就是错误的逻辑。</span></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">余欢水之所以产生如此巨大的改变，更多是自我心理疏通后的脱胎换骨。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他不再过度压制自己的欲望，而是找到了让生活更有价值的意义。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">他以前活的没有自我，害怕失去，一味的顺从。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但他患癌后，不再被面子、情分所绑架，而是<strong>按照自己的意愿，有尊严的生活。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">很多时候，我们和余欢水一样，因为害怕失去，从而刻意讨好别人，盲从当生活的被动者。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">实际上，我们要明白，归根结底，人的本性都是一样的，都有征服和战胜欲望，也有寻求自己的人生价值和保证自由的权利，<strong>即便是为了生活也不应该轻易放弃这个权利。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">要不然，很容易因为不懂得拒绝别人，而只能牺牲自己，成全别人。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">明明不是自己的工作，但由于不好意思拒绝，结果可能别人都下班了，自己还要默默加班，可能出了错误，还要自己来承担后果。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">明明自己很忙有其他事要办，可是由于同事开口，还是会把他们一一送到家，结果反而耽误自己的事情。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">明明自己的钱也不是很富余，然而碍于情面，还是会把钱借了出去，自己可能因此节衣缩食的过日子。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">这种“便利贴性格”，从来不会交到真朋友，只是被当做“烂好人”。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">三毛说：</span></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif;"><section style="margin: 10px 16px 8px;"><section style="padding-left: 8px;display: inline-block;width: 100%;vertical-align: top;border-left: 3px solid rgb(219, 219, 219);border-bottom-left-radius: 0px;"><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.5);font-size: 14px;font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light;"><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;"><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);caret-color: red;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span><span style="color: rgb(127, 127, 127);font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">“不要害怕拒绝他人，如果自己的理由出于正当。当一个人开口提出要求的时候，他的心里根本预备好了两种答案。所以，给他任何一个其中的答案，都是意料中的。”</span></p></section></section></section></section><p style="letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;line-height: normal;"><br><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></p><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">就像毕淑敏说的那样，<strong>拒绝是一种权利，就像生存是一种权利。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"><br></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">我们有权利去拒绝任何人的要求，无论合理还是不合理。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">要明白，因为拒绝而损失的人际关系，失去也无所谓。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">实际上，人生要懂得适当的取舍。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">尤其，一个成熟的容易被压榨的中年人，更要学会取舍。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">年龄越大，精力越有限，无论多么拼命，也只有24小时可以供自己来利用。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">与其把时间分散开做不同的事情，不如把有限的时间专注做一件事，成功的希望才越大。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">不管是做事，还是交人，都应如此。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">要知道，不珍视你的人，无论付出多少，都换不来真心；</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">也有很多事情，并不是努力，就能成功。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">只有学会及时止损，才不会让自己输得太惨。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">否则，到头来，被过度消费、利用后，还是要面临被舍弃的命运。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">记得余华写过一句话：</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong><br></strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;background-color: rgb(244, 219, 184);"><strong>当我们凶狠地对待这个世界时，世界突然变得温文尔雅了。</strong></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">不要让怂成为成年人的标配底色。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;"></span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">要相信，只要自己活着还有希望，人生总会看到光。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">有句话叫你若盛开，蝴蝶自来。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">余欢水之所以后来可以不再受制于人，并且无意间成为大英雄，就是因为他想通了，换了个活法。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">成年人的生活，本来就没有容易二字。</span></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><br></section><section style="line-height: 1.5em;letter-spacing: 1.5px;margin-left: 16px;margin-right: 16px;"><strong><span style="font-size: 15px;font-family: 宋体, SimSun;">但是看清了生活的本质，我们更应该按照自己想走的人生，好好过下去。</span></strong></section><br><font size="2">转载声明：本文转载自「Jenny乔」，搜索「Jenny-Qiao-Love」即可关注</font>花猫写作网拥有一帮喜欢读书、喜欢写作、喜欢分享传播正能量的朋友每天与你一起学习成长，在这里你不仅仅是收获知识。转载请联系花猫说（id:hmshuyouquan）进行授权转载。
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