中年以后最硬的底牌，不是钱，不是婚姻，而是这3种能力
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><p style='letter-spacing: 0.578px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;text-align: center;font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span><br></p><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>知乎上有个提问引发不少讨论：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>人到中年，是种怎样的体验？</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>评论区里有人说：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>中年是一把辛酸泪，父母曾背着我们支撑家庭，如今轮到我们，必须义不容辞。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>心疼父母双鬓已斑白，期望孩子成人才，我们能做的，就是拍拍尘土，咬牙前行。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>你不惜一切的忙碌，生活只剩下疲累和艰辛。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>也许会在一个偶尔的闲暇，一杯酒下肚之后，满腔的心酸涌上心头，满眶的泪水奔涌而出。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>行至中年，生活似乎充满了悲凉与艰难，不能逃避也无法逃避。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>那么，我们该怎么样熬过，痛苦的人生分水岭呢？</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>在这上有老下有小的阶段，我们最该具备这三种能力：</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>走出舒适区的魄力，进入学习区的毅力，摆脱恐慌区的内力。</span></section><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></p><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; line-height: normal;'><strong><span style='color: rgb(123, 12, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;'>有走出舒适区的魄力</span></strong></p><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>《肖申克的救赎》里有一句台词：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>监狱里的高墙实在是很有趣。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>刚入狱的时候，你痛恨周围的高墙，慢慢地，你习惯了生活在其中，最终你会发现自己不得不依靠它而生存。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>这就是舒适区，这个“区”会让人在惬意中安逸自得，意志与斗志被慢慢消耗，一旦风险来临，只能任其碾压，毫无还击之力。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>有个同事，因为被裁员，患上抑郁症，整日闭门不出。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>去探望时，他一个大男人竟哭成泪人，看着眼前这一幕，不禁想起曾经与他的对话。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>第一年公司年会时，问他：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“你明年有什么计划？</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>他答：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“能有什么计划，继续工作呗，最好年底多发点奖金。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>第二年公司安排评职称，对他说：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“凭你的资历，可以报名。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>他答：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“算了吧，我现在每月有固定工资，过着小资生活，挺好的，何必劳神费力。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>第三年公司组织人员考职业资格证，问他：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“以你的条件，是否拼搏一次？</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>他答：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“嗯……其实我挺享受现在的生活，舒服自在，不想其他了。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>到了第四年，因为行业不景气，公司业务锐减，迫不得已裁员。</span></section><section style='margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span><span style='font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>年近四十，别无所长的他，毫无悬念地失业了。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(123, 12, 0); letter-spacing: 1px;'>看过一句话：人生就像长跑，有踏上起点的勇气，才有机会看到终点的红线。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='font-size: var(--articleFontsize);letter-spacing: 0.034em;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>别沉溺于舒适区里得过且过，因为能给你遮风挡雨的，同样也能让你不见天日。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>突破惰性思维，去尝试、去淬炼，不给自己画圈，生活就不会受到桎梏。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>想吃天鹅肉的蛤蟆，上了供桌，坐井观天的青蛙，涮了火锅。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><strong><span style='letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(123, 12, 0);'>学会做好这四点，勇敢走出去。</span></strong></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px;'>①常反思，做到吾日三省吾身。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>在反思中，未雨绸缪。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px;'>②明确自己的方向和克服的困难。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>剖析舒适圈之外恐惧的深层次原因，逐一突破。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px;'>③改变不可能一蹴而就，一步一步来。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>循序渐进，慢即是快。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px;'>④每天尝试一些舒适圈以外的新事情。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>不断尝试的经历，就是走出舒适圈的过程。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>华丽跌倒，胜过无谓的徘徊，往前走一步，会比站在原地更接近成功。</span></section><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></p><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; line-height: normal;'><strong><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);'>有进入学习区的毅力</span></strong></p><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“路漫漫其修远兮，吾将上下而求索。”人生一晃已经年，中年浓浓正斑斓。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>这个时期，若不学习更新，路将会越走越窄；保持学习，路才会在脚下变成坦途。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>电视剧《理想照耀中国》之《从头再来》里，中年下岗的薛荣，连续创业九次都失败了。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>亲朋好友都离她而去，但是她自己并没放弃，持续精进自己。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>薛荣本是一家五星级酒店的经理，企业改革裁员，她不忍姐妹们失业，自己便主动辞职。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>从来没做过生意的她，学着养狗、养鱼、卖家电，虽然没挣到钱，却从中汲取了丰富的经验，</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>而后，她开了一家保洁公司。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>为了能承包电视台的保洁工作，她对电视台的环境进行摸底，悉数掌握了大楼面积、房间数、卫生死角等。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>根据自己掌握的情况，撰写了电视台保洁外包项目计划书，对电视台大楼各个地方的保洁工作，做了详细说明。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>还特别研制了保洁工具，比如：</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>专业清洁百叶窗的夹子、专门清洁门把手的手套、专门清洁夹层的刷子等。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>电视台的苏科长听完她如此专业的介绍，一改之前的冷漠，将电视台保洁外包单子给了她。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>所以，不要质疑你的付出，所有积累与经验，终会为你撑起一片天，让你成为更优秀的人。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>中年学习，既是弥补年少的遗憾，更是对中年时期最好的沉淀。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>即使不能立即改变眼前的生活，至少可以在过程中窥到很多人生智慧，让心境得到提升。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>学习专业知识，学习人际交往，能让工作更顺心；</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>学瑜伽，学健身，会让身体强健；</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>学弹琴，学插花，可以陶冶情操……</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>每天进步一点点，日积月累，好处看得见。</span></section><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;outline: 0px;visibility: visible !important;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></p><p style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; line-height: normal;'><span style='color: rgb(123, 12, 0);'><strong><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>有摆脱恐慌区的内力</span></strong></span></p><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>走过半生，当青春和激情渐渐远去，挥不去的除了逐渐增多的皱纹，还有肩上沉甸甸的责任；</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>甩不掉的除了日益变大的肚腩，还有生活赋予的沉重包袱。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>此时，最好的状态该是：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>无论高山低谷，亦或是跌宕起伏，都能不失方寸，稳中求进。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>曾看到这样一个故事：1928年，纽约股市崩盘，美国一家大公司的老板忧心忡忡地回到家里。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>惶恐不安地对妻子说</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“完了。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>完了。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>我被法院宣告破产了，家里所有的财产明天就要被法院查封了。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>妻子闻言，柔声说道：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“你的身体也被查封了吗？</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>你的妻子也被查封了吗？</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>还有你的孩子们呢？</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>他不解地答道：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“并没有啊。</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'><span class="wxart_image" wx-style='display:inline-block;letter-spacing: 0.578px;width: 100%;height: auto;'></span></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>妻子说：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>“既然如此，你烦恼什么呢？</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>你还有一个支持你的妻子，一群有希望的孩子，而且你有丰富的经验，还拥有健康的身体和灵活的头脑。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>至于丢掉的财富，以后都可以再赚回来，何必恐慌。”</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>听了妻子的话，他渐渐平复了焦虑不安的情绪。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>结果，三年后，他的公司再次发展壮大，还被《财富》杂志评为五大企业之一。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>人生不会都是岁月静好，生活总会有惊涛骇浪。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>正因生活有裂缝，阳光才有机会照进来；</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>而人经历了坎坷，亦会变得坚强起来。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>遇事不要慌，有直面的勇气，去做最坏的打算，再往最好处努力，便没有跨不过的坎，也没有挺不过的难。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>诚如《大学》中所言：静而后能安，安而后能虑，虑而后能得。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>无论世事怎么变，稳住自己的心最关键。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; text-align: center;'><span style='color: rgb(123, 12, 0);'><strong><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>▼</span></strong></span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>余华在《活着》中写道：</span><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>没有什么比活着更快乐，也没有什么比活着更艰辛。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em;'><span style='letter-spacing: 1px;'>生活从来不易，人间不皆温柔，滚滚红尘中，艰难为生的人比比皆是。</span></section><section style='margin: 32px 8px; 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